Mr. & Mrs. Perez

*Written below is the channeled Candle Story behind this Curation*

Mr. & Mrs. Perez-

My lovely Crystal Mystic, was hit was the most devastating of life moments. Her husband had died unexpectedly. She reached out and sent me a message. The news hit me with a level of emotion, I could not process. I could not imagine such pain. I empathized and felt fragments. I could not allow myself to dive into such a feeling. The pain at surface level was already unbearable. The loss of a spouse is a loss I do not wish upon any soul. I find it difficult to be supportive and healing under the circumstances. I felt my words meaningless as I regurgitated the powerful teachings of death by Ram Dass. I wished to console her. But found myself powerless. How can you heal such a void? A void that cannot be filled.

I instantly began planning a candle to create for her. I had found coffee mugs for my husband and I, a few months back. On the mug it stated, “You’re My Person.” I envisioned the mugs and wished to find her one to make a candle gift. Unsure of what else I could offer my friend. I had even decided that, if I could not find a duplicate mug, I would give her mine. As some time went on, Cheree had commented on a few candles I had shared on my social media. They were previously designed intuitive orders. I reached out and told her I would create her, her very own intuitive order. She requested an Abstemious Intuitive Order. I did not tell her about my plans to create her a candle already. I was going to gift her the other one, as a surprise.

Cheree informed me that she recently connected to Hekate. In my mind’s eye, I envisioned my Hekate Lantern candle. I had just decided to keep that vessel as a permanent piece for my altar space. It would seem as if Hekate had other plans. It was an interesting moment of understanding for myself, a time of new beginnings and closure cycles to release workings, items and experiences. I am embarking a new journey and it is time to share my wisdom with the world. The Hekate Candle was a higher priced piece. This is not to generate any guilt or self sacrifice. I simply want to note the detail. The money never has meant much to me. I price with the intent to support my life as I am destined to live. However, I will ignore the physical pricing required and focus on the spiritual pricing. This candle was more than destined to be resurrected for Cheree. This was my role and a way for my magick to live on. I burned this candle for myself once before. Hekate does not believe me to need to utilize her again, but create something new for myself.

This Hekate candle was created from multiple pieces, however the main base is the base of a vintage candle lantern. Inside there is a coffin nail, a broken RIP gravestone and specialized herbs with wax. One layer of the vessel has a crystal bowl filled with herbs, flowers and wax. Wax from the previous candle filling. As if a Tower wall was being built and now this is the next layer of bricks. Hekate is building her tower of Goddesses/Witches and bringing forth a rise in sisterhood. This candle resurrection became more special with each insight gained.

I went to the Dollar General down by my home, where I initially found the mugs for my husband and I. I was not in the mindset of finding the mug. I was gruffly purchasing candle packaging supplies quickly to finish other order. Lost in dealing with my own personal annoyances. I walked down the isle for packaging tape. A shiny item caught my eye and I looked over and saw one remaining coffee mug. On the mug was written “You’re My Person.” The shiny item that caught my eye, was a gold keychain. Engraved on the keychain was a divine message. One I shall keep private. However, it was almost word for word a channeled message I sent Cheree when she was grieving to me. I knew her husband was with me in that moment. I snapped out of my mood and was excited to share with Cheree the magick that occurred before me.

Through the conversation with Cheree, I decided to tell her (vaguely) the details of her candle story, being sensitive to allowing the magick to flow into existence and allow her surprise upon seeing her creations. She was overjoyed and informed me of a few connecting details. Her husband was a medium and he had told her he adored me. I understood that to be an energetic/psychic connection. She expressed how her and her husband had a coffee routine and was a bonding factor within their relationship. She stated she had not drank coffee since he died. The coffee mug was more significant than I imagined it to be.

I had very specific and special instructions channeled to me, to provide Cheree with a healing routine with the coffee mug once the candle was burned to completion. I was figuring a tea routine. Stereotypical and witchy, but also due to the timing of life’s routines and knowing that nighttime can be the most saddening or lonely. And yet, after discovering the bond of coffee time between the couple, I replied to Cheree stating, “He wants to guide you to the sun. The light of the morning.” Unknowing of what she could have responded with, Cheree sent me a photo. It was of an oracle card, symbolizing the light rising of the Sun. Another synchronization. Honored to be an antenna for such a healing, loving energy. I wish Cheree a lifetime of happiness, the strength and temperance to grieve and the power to transmute into her next phase of self evolution. She is never alone and her beloved Christopher is at rest from this realm, but diligently working hard in the astral to guide her to her destiny.

Hekate Candle Scent: Lavender, Bergamot, Rose, Ylang Ylang & Rosemary

Sunshine Roast Coffee: Myrrh & Cinnamon